Enneagram Coaching For a Better Relationship
Finally, language to explain yourself clearly - and a tool to understand your partner way better.
“Enneagram coaching has not only kept our relationship strong but progressed it in ways we thought would take years.”
- ELISHA & BRANDON
Relationships are complicated.
Sometimes you just need someone to verbally process with.
Other times, you want practical tools to get unstuck.
And how about language to explain to your partner exactly what’s going on in your head and heart?
Enneagram coaching does it all.
Meet Elyse Regier
I’ve been coaching couples with the Enneagram since 2020. When Braden & I started dating, it was important to me that we understood each others’ Enneagram types.
The shared language we have around our types is crucial. It’s like a shortcut for us to solve problems. It helps us communicate way better, and we have more grace when the other person isn’t doing things exactly how we want.
My Enneagram expertise will help you two see each other in new ways & understand each other more deeply.
When I’m not talking about the Enneagram, I’m reading, playing soccer, cooking risotto, or making cocktails with my friends.
I’m an Enneagram + Marriage Certified Coach. I’ve literally learned from the best.
I’ve been training with Christa Hardin of Enneagram + Marriage for 3 years.
“Elyse introduced me to the Enneagram. I finally understood how I am created and why I think and act.
I wish I had learned this 20 years ago!”
Monique, Type 1 married to a Type 8
So what exactly is Enneagram coaching?
It’s sessions with a coach where you learn all about you and your partner’s Enneagram type - in other words, you’ll go deep on what’s motivating each of you, your core fears, core desires, and how you make decisions.
If you don’t learn what’s motivating your partner, you will waste years trying to figure them out & being frustrated.
The Process
Step 1: Introductions.
I have seen the Enneagram change lives for so many couples - but it isn’t always the right fit.
Let’s meet each other, chat about where you guys are at in life, & make sure this is what you need.
Step 2: Set your goals.
To get the most out of your coaching sessions, you first need to zero in on what exactly your relationship needs.
Here are some possible reasons for coaching:
You’re in a new relationship and want to understand each others’ motivations now, so you can avoid big issues later
You just want to know your partner better
There is something stressful going on that you need to work through
There’s some tension with your families and you need help processing it.
There’s a specific conflict you two keep repeating over and over, and it’s just time to hash it out.
Start by getting specific about the outcomes you want.
Step 3: Type Session
We get to know each other & we find your type, if you don’t already know it.
This is also the time where you tell me those goals you set together in Step 2.
Step 4: Coaching
This is where the magic happens ✨
5 Sessions
90 minutes each
Each session focuses on a different aspect of your Enneagram type. I’ll break down specific parts of your personality so you start to see yourself with more clarity, piece by piece.
You’ll finally put language to parts of you that you never knew how to explain.
I’ll guide you in your discussion, reflection and self-observation. You’ll feel amazed at how the Enneagram brings you and your partner closer.
You’re going to learn so much about each other - and solve current conflicts.
All sessions can be Zoom or in-person if you live in Northwest Indiana.
Enneagram Coaching for Couples
Book if you fit these:
You and your partner both desire to grow together
You want to learn about your conflict styles
You want to communicate better
You want to be a student of your partner and understand the way they see the world
What’s included
My couples coaching sessions come in 5-session packages.
Why 5? Your relationship will have better outcomes when you do multiple coaching sessions together.
One session alone won’t be enough to bring lasting change to your relationships.
Here’s what you’ll get:
Typing session to find or confirm your type ($79 value)
5 Couples Coaching sessions (1.5 hrs each) with a Certified Enneagram Coach ($497 value)
10 Information-packed worksheets that you get to keep - they’ll keep helping you even after your coaching ends ($247 value)